have you been in a position where you really cared for a person, love the person and wants to share the burdens and yet everything is in naught? have you been in a position where you want to understand what the person is feeling, why and how to help the person yet the person just rejects your help? have you truly understand how helpless it is? if you do, will you still do it?

when you kept everything to yourself, you made me feel helpless. totally useless.